Couples Therapy.

“Between stimulus and response there is a space.

In that space is our power to choose our response.

In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

— Viktor E. Frankl

Do you find yourself . . .

Disconnected and unfulfilled in your relationship?

Wishing you felt you were in more of a partnership?

Feeling unheard and unseen?

Having difficulty understanding your partner?

Feeling misunderstood by your partner?

Arguing over the same things with your partner?

Trying to overcome and heal hurts or betrayals between you?

In a vicious cycle when you interact with your partner?

Wondering if it could get better?

Research shows that having fulfilling primary relationships are important to our emotional and physical health. 

Despite what has been claimed in the popular press, there are couples therapy approaches that are well-documented to be extremely effective. 

Isn’t it time to improve your most important relationship? 

Using research-based, scientifically validated couples therapy approaches, I work with couples. . .

 
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At any stage of a relationship

  • In a relatively new relationship and trying to figure out whether to commit to each other

  • Going through a major transition, such as getting married, having children, or becoming empty nesters

  • Dealing with a crisis, such as discovery of an affair, a recent loss, or considering separation

  • Together for years and wanting more connection and passion in the relationship

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Collaboratively

  • focusing on your strengths while working on your challenges

  • helping you recognize your dynamics and repetitive patterns

  • identifying what is underlying your negative interactions

  • helping you both understand and empathize with each other’s experiences. 

  • working towards feeling more connected

  • assisting you to get clear about important decisions in your relationship

  • guiding you to meet your relationship goals together

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To help you:

  • hear each other differently

  • respond to each other more productively

  • shift negative patterns

  • communicate more effectively

  • feel more connected, supported, loving and intimate.

  • address difficult issues in a more united way

  • resolve conflicts more effectively & efficiently

  • recover from painful events in your relationship

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Grounded in evidence-based Attachment Theory

  • Focuses on shifting negative vicious cycles & patterns

  • Helps improve communication by identifying, expressing, and understanding underlying feelings, thoughts, behaviors & dynamics

  • Creates more consistently

    positive interactions, and ultimately a more safe, connected and secure relationship

 

Gottman Method Therapy (GMT)

  • Based on a model developed through years of research called The Sound Relationship House

  • Utilizes specific interventions and exercises that help couples to improve communication, manage conflict & build more positive interactions

  • Helps partners to develop connected, fulfilling and lasting relationships

Contemporary Cognitive Behavioral &

Mindfulness-Based Approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Mindfulness-Based Therapies (MBTs)

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Additional Therapies

Imago Therapy

Internal Family Systems Therapy

Collaborative Couples Therapy

Family Systems

. . . & Effectively Integrating Approaches

Contact me.

For more information or to schedule an appointment

Call 610-526-0755 or send an email through the link below.